When Olsen-twin style waves were all the rage three years ago, I looked to one girl for my hairspiration: Kate Hudson. (Yeah, the Olsens had good hair and all, but the homeless hobbit-vibe derailed my interest after a while.) The chick-flickalicious How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days was on TV last night, and although Kate’s hair is flatironed into oblivion for most of the movie (memo to Hollywood stylists: just because it’s straight doesn’t make it better!), she has fabulous waves in a few scenes where we’re supposed to believe her hair has airdried into such perfection.

To get the look right requires a dispiriting amount of elbow grease, not to mention a prodigious mess of product: it’s all about the mousse, gel, and anti-frizz cream! I’ve yet to find a mousse that I’m really in love with, although I occasionally use VO5 Curvaceous Curls Styling Mousse–really, the brand matters very little and any drugstore brand will do. Wash and condition hair, comb out tangles and pat dry with a towel, then apply a golf-ball sized amount of mousse, followed by a dime-sized amount of gel. Take care to blowdry the pieces around your face straight and smooth with a large round brush, then quickly blowdry the rest of your hair (this can be messy; the point is simply to get it dry). When hair is dry, it will probably look a bit rough, but that’s okay; work a dime-sized amount of grooming, styling or anti-frizz cream through the ends, then use a curling iron to loosely curl hair at ear-level and longer. The key to make it look modern? Don’t curl the hair all the way up the shaft to the roots; this only results in 1980’s prom queen hair, which isn’t really the look you’re going for! (Um, I assume.) Et, voila. Just like Kate Hudson…without actually being Kate Hudson. (Half the fun, I’d bet, but you can’t win ‘em all!)